Just when you think you’ve got things figured out, that you’ve got the world bythe balls, the universe comes along and slaps you up side the back of your head.  Saying, “Uh uh uh.  Kristen, you haven’t fully figured this life lesson out.  Time for you to experience it again and let’s see how you do.”  And right now, all I can think of is great, another fucking life lesson.  Welcome to today’s lesson: self-sabotage.  That’s right.  I said it.  Self-sabotage which sometimes tak